GROUP EMOTIONAL HEALING RETREAT FOR WOMEN

The Secure Woman

A Deep Emotional Healing Retreat for Women Ready to Break Lifelong Relationship Patterns

This is the deepest self-care retreat.

A structured, immersive process designed to help you heal anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, and the patterns that keep you stuck in relationships that don’t feel safe.

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GROUP EMOTIONAL HEALING RETREAT FOR WOMEN

The Secure Woman

A Deep Emotional Healing Retreat for Women Ready to Break Lifelong Relationship Patterns

This is the deepest self-care retreat.

A structured, immersive process designed to help you heal anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, and the patterns that keep you stuck in relationships that don’t feel safe.

Apply 
THIS IS FOR YOU IF …

You’re ready to stop seeking safety, love and recognition outside yourself and become it.

  • You over-give, overthink, and lose yourself in relationships

  • You feel anxious, emotionally unsafe, or afraid of being abandoned

  • You attract unavailable or inconsistent partners

  • You’ve done the work (talk therapy)—but the patterns keep repeating

  • You’re ready for deep transformation that lasts.

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THE WORK (WHY THIS IS DIFFERENT)

The Emotional Healing System™

A structured, integrative approach that blends psycho-spirituality, nervous system regulation, inner-child work, and experiential processes to create lasting transformation.

This is not talk therapy.
You are not just discussing your past —
you are actively working with it.

The focus is on identify root causes, releasing stored emotional pain, and creating real, measurable internal change.

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GUIDED BY EXPERT EXPERIENCE

Jana Wilson

Founder of The Emotional Healing System™.

Over 20 years guiding individuals and groups through deep emotional transformation.

Dr. Lance Wilson, MD

Medical doctor and co-facilitator, bringing a deep understanding of the mind-body connection.

You are held in a container that is safe, direct, and deeply transformative.

THE PROCESS

Your Journey Through the Work

A structured, 4-pillar process designed specifically for women who are ready to stop looking outside themselves for validation, love, and approval and start living with purpose, connection, and emotional freedom.

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    01

    AWARENESS

    Turn insight into clarity.
    See yourself. Understand what’s real.

    • Core emotional triggers

    • Reactive behaviors

    • The internal narratives shaping your decisions

    You cannot change what you don’t see. This is where clarity begins.

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    02

    EXCAVATION

    This is where we go deeper. You will safely access and process:

    • Suppressed emotions

    • Early conditioning

    • Core false beliefs formed in childhood.

    This is the work most people avoid. It is also where real lasting change happens.

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    03

    INTEGRATION

    Insight alone does not create change. In this phase you’ll:

    • Integrate previously disowned parts of yourself

    • Build emotional regulation in real time.

    • Shift from reaction to conscious response.

    You begin to feel different—not just understand more.

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    04

    CREATION

    With a new internal foundation, you define how you move forward.

    • How you show up in relationships

    • How you lead your life

    • How you respond under stress

    This is where new identity begins to take shape.

THE SETTING

Santa Fe,
New Mexico

Your experience takes place in a private, serene environment surrounded by natural beauty, quiet, and open space.

A space designed for healing.

DATES, ROOMS & INVESTMENT

Choose Your Retreat Experience

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Each retreat is intentionally small and curated.
Once spots are filled, enrollment closes.

Limited to 4 - 7 women per retreat

Travel to santa fe is not included

If dates don’t work for you - see our Healing Barn stay

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June 25 - 29, 2026
Santa Fe, New Mexico

September 24 - 28, 2026
Santa Fe, New Mexico

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    Private Room Experience

    For those who want privacy, space and deeper integration.

    Private bedroom at The Healing Barn

    Full retreat access

    Quiet space for reflection


    $2,999

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    Shared Room Experience

    For those who value connection,
    comfort, and shared experience.

    Shared bedroom at The Healing Barn or the Luxury Glamping Tent

    Full retreat access

    Connection with like-minded participants

    Shared bathroom


    $1,999

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    Luxury Glamping Experience

    For those who feel nourished by nature, space, and quiet grounding.

    Luxury Glamping tent accommodations

    Full retreat access

    Immersive nature experience

    Private bathroom


    $2,499

What’s included

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    Nourishing whole-food, locally sourced.

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    Small group environment.

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    Structured emotional healing processes. In-depth workbook.

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    Practical tools for real-life integration.

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    Nature hikes, and grounding practices.

Choose Your Perfect Accommodation

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    Black Beauty Private Room

    Private queen tempurpedic bed with down comforter, crisp cotton linens and direct outside access to the Cowboy Bath.

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    White Beauty Room

    Semi-private (studio) queen tempurpedic bed with down comforter, crisp cotton linens. Fall to sleep to sounds of the waterfall directly outside.

  • A bedroom with two black twin beds with tribal patterned black and white bedspreads, a black dresser, a black nightstand between the beds with a mirror above, a window with a plant and flowers on the windowsill, and wall decorations including framed artwork and circular wall hangings.

    XL Twin Beds Shared Room

    Two XL Twin tempurpedic beds to share with a friend. Down comforters and crisp cotton linens. Located inside the Healing Barn.

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    Pinon Glamping Tent

    Gorgeous canvas tent with veranda. Queen tempurpedic bed with down comforters, heated mattress pad and crisp cotton linens. Wood stove inside the tent. Private bathhouse just a short distance away.

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    Red Cedar Glamping Tent

    Gorgeous boho decor with Queen bunk tempurpedic beds, heated mattress pad, down comforters, and crisp cotton linens. Wood stove inside tent. Private bathhouse just a short distance away.

This Is Where Real Change Begins

If you’re ready to move beyond patterns and step into lasting transformation, the next step is simple.

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    “The retreat has provided me with a comprehensive set of tools and knowledge, empowering me to continue my journey of self-discovery, release false beliefs, and appreciate my unique gifts.”

    After reading the introductory information about Jana Wilson's Emotional Healing Retreat, I instantly sensed its life-altering potential. This intuition was later confirmed. The retreat's intense yet calming atmosphere in Santa Fe allowed me to disconnect from the chaos and reflect on the misguided messages and maladaptive coping mechanisms stemming from my traumatic childhood. The retreat has provided me with a comprehensive set of tools and knowledge, empowering me to continue my journey of self-discovery, release false beliefs, and appreciate my unique gifts. I am eternally grateful to Jana and Lance Wilson for this incredible experience.

    Diana Waddell-Gilbert

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    “My experience at the Healing Barn far exceeded my expectations.”

    My experience at the Healing Barn far exceeded my expectations. The location was spectacular, the barn itself was tranquil and cozy, and created the perfect setting to embark into deep healing work. Jana and Lance were amazing hosts, supporting my every need. I can’t wait to return!

    Dana Paskalis, Rhode Island

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    “This retreat has guided me to find joy and peace within myself. Thanks forever to Jana and Lance!”

    It took me a long time to find the type of retreat I was needing. My sister and I attended the private intensive retreat and was very impressed with the whole experience. The retreat was the perfect balance of a spiritual experience with a down to earth feel. It felt natural to work with both Jana and Lance. The atmosphere was inviting and comfortable. I was so happy that we had done the “pre-work” from Jana as it allowed us the time to just do the work when we were there. I have never felt so relaxed with myself and am enjoying integrating the tools in my everyday life. This retreat has guided me to find joy and peace within myself. Thanks forever to Jana and Lance!❤️

    Jennifer Stone, New Jersey