GROUP RETREAT FOR WOMEN

The Secure Woman

A Deep Emotional Healing Retreat for Women
Ready to Break Lifelong Relationship Patterns

This is the deepest self-care retreat.

A structured, immersive process designed to help you heal anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, and the patterns that keep you stuck in relationships that don’t feel safe.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF …

You’re ready to stop
seeking safety, love and recognition outside yourself and become it.

  • You over-give, overthink, and lose yourself in relationships

  • You feel anxious, emotionally unsafe, or afraid of being abandoned

  • You attract unavailable or inconsistent partners

  • You’ve done the work (talk therapy)—but the patterns keep repeating

  • You’re ready for deep transformation that lasts.

Your Journey Through the Work

THE PROCESS

A structured, 4-pillar process designed specifically for women who are ready to stop looking outside themselves for validation, love, and approval and start living with purpose, connection, and emotional freedom.

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1. AWARENESS

Turn insight into clarity.
See yourself. Understand what’s real.

  • Core emotional triggers

  • Reactive behaviors

  • The internal narratives shaping your decisions

You cannot change what you don’t see.
This is where clarity begins.

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2. EXCAVATION

This is where we go deeper.

You will safely access and process:

  • Suppressed emotions

  • Early conditioning

  • Core false beliefs formed in childhood.

This is the work most people avoid. It is also where real lasting change happens.

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3. INTEGRATION

Insight alone does not create change.

In this phase you’ll:

  • Integrate previously disowned parts of yourself

  • Build emotional regulation in real time.

  • Shift from reaction to conscious response.

You begin to feel different—not just understand more.

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4. CREATION

With a new internal foundation, you define how you move forward.

  • How you show up in relationships

  • How you lead your life

  • How you respond under stress

This is where new identity begins to take shape.

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THE WORK (WHY THIS IS DIFFERENT)

The Emotional
Healing System™

A structured, integrative approach that blends psycho-spirituality, nervous system regulation, inner-child work, and experiential processes to create lasting transformation.

This is not talk therapy.
You are not just discussing your past —
you are actively working with it.


The focus is on identify root causes, releasing stored emotional pain, and creating real, measurable internal change.

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GUIDED BY EXPERT EXPERIENCE

Jana Wilson

Founder of The Emotional Healing System™.
Over 20 years guiding individuals and groups through deep emotional transformation.

Dr. Lance Wilson, MD

Medical doctor and co-facilitator, bringing
a deep understanding of the mind-body connection.

You are held in a container that is safe, direct, and deeply transformative.

THE SETTING

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Santa Fe,
New Mexico

Your experience takes place in a private, serene environment surrounded by natural beauty, quiet, and open space.

A space designed for healing.

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Choose Your Retreat Experience

Each retreat is intentionally small and curated.
Once spots are filled, enrollment closes.

Limited to 4 - 7 women per retreat

DATES, ROOMS & INVESTMENT

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June 25 - 29, 2026
Santa Fe, New Mexico

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September 24 - 28, 2026
Santa Fe, New Mexico

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What’s Included

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Nourishing whole-food, locally sourced.

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Structured emotional healing processes. In-depth workbook.

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Small group environment.

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Practical tools for real-life integration.

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Nature hikes, and grounding practices.

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What’s Not Included

Optional Add-Ons

Travel to Santa Fe, NM

SPOTS ARE LIMITED, AND APPLICATIONS ARE VIEWED CAREFULLY.
IF YOU FEEL CALLED TO THIS WORK, THE NEXT STEP IS TO BEGIN THE CONVERSATION

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    Black Beauty Private Room

    Private queen tempurpedic bed with down comforter, crisp cotton linens and direct outside access to the Cowboy Bath.

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    White Beauty Room

    Semi-private (studio) queen tempurpedic bed with down comforter, crisp cotton linens. Fall to sleep to sounds of the waterfall directly outside.

  • A bedroom with two black twin beds with tribal patterned black and white bedspreads, a black dresser, a black nightstand between the beds with a mirror above, a window with a plant and flowers on the windowsill, and wall decorations including framed artwork and circular wall hangings.

    XL Twin Beds Shared Room

    Two XL Twin tempurpedic beds to share with a friend. Down comforters and crisp cotton linens. Located inside the Healing Barn.

  • A cozy, illuminated tent set up on a wooden deck at night, with two people sitting inside at a table, surrounded by fairy lights, two lounge chairs outside, and a dark night sky overhead.

    Pinon Glamping Tent

    Gorgeous canvas tent with veranda. Queen tempurpedic bed with down comforters, heated mattress pad and crisp cotton linens. Wood stove inside the tent. Private bathhouse just a short distance away.

  • Interior of a tent with a bunk bed, two black chairs, a small black side table with a candle, and a black furry rug on wooden flooring.

    Red Cedar Glamping Tent

    Gorgeous boho decor with Queen bunk tempurpedic beds, heated mattress pad, down comforters, and crisp cotton linens. Wood stove inside tent. Private bathhouse just a short distance away.

This Is Where Real Change Begins

If you’re ready to move beyond patterns and step into lasting transformation, the next step is simple.

What Participants Are Saying:

  • Diana Waddell-Gilbert

    After reading the introductory information about Jana Wilson's Emotional Healing Retreat, I instantly sensed its life-altering potential. This intuition was later confirmed. The retreat's intense yet calming atmosphere in Santa Fe allowed me to disconnect from the chaos and reflect on the misguided messages and maladaptive coping mechanisms stemming from my traumatic childhood. The retreat has provided me with a comprehensive set of tools and knowledge, empowering me to continue my journey of self-discovery, release false beliefs, and appreciate my unique gifts. I am eternally grateful to Jana and Lance Wilson for this incredible experience.

  • Dana Paskalis, Rhode Island

    My experience at the Healing Barn far exceeded my expectations. The location was spectacular, the barn itself was tranquil and cozy, and created the perfect setting to embark into deep healing work. Jana and Lance were amazing hosts, supporting my every need. I can’t wait to return!

  • Jennifer Stone, New Jersey

    It took me a long time to find the type of retreat I was needing. My sister and I attended the private intensive retreat and was very impressed with the whole experience. The retreat was the perfect balance of a spiritual experience with a down to earth feel. It felt natural to work with both Jana and Lance. The atmosphere was inviting and comfortable. I was so happy that we had done the “pre-work” from Jana as it allowed us the time to just do the work when we were there. I have never felt so relaxed with myself and am enjoying integrating the tools in my everyday life. This retreat has guided me to find joy and peace within myself. Thanks forever to Jana and Lance!❤️