GROUP EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE RETREAT FOR MEN

The Grounded Man

For Men Who Are Successful—But Still Feel Something Isn’t Working

A structured, high-impact emotional intelligence retreat designed to help you break lifelong negative patterns, regulate your inner world, and show up differently in your relationships, in leadership and in life.

This is not talk therapy. Not a passive retreat.
This is guided, immersive process for real and lasting change.

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GROUP EMOTIONAL HEALING RETREAT FOR MEN

The Grounded Man

An Emotional Intelligence Retreat

For Men Who Are Successful—But Still Feel Something Isn’t Working

A structured, high-impact emotional intelligence retreat designed to help you break lifelong negative patterns, regulate your inner world, and show up differently in your relationships, in leadership and in life.

This is not talk therapy. Not a passive retreat.
This is guided, immersive process for real and lasting change.

Apply For Your Retreat
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THE REALITY MOST MEN DON’T SAY OUT LOUD

You’ve Built a Life That Works — On The Outside

But Internally, Something Still Feels Off.

You may notice:

  • Repeating patterns in relationships

  • Difficulty accessing or expressing emotion

  • A constant sense of pressure, frustration, or disconnection

  • Feeling in control externally—but not internally

  • Knowing there’s more available to you, but not knowing how to access it

You’ve likely tried to “figure it out” on your own. And at some point, you realize:

This isn’t something you think your way through.

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THIS ISN’T THERAPY. THIS IS RETURNING TO YOU.

This is a Deep, Structured
Emotional Intelligence Retreat for Men

Our 4-day retreat is designed to help you break old cycles and build new patterns.

Everything we do is grounded in emotional intelligence, personal growth, and real-world integration. You won’t just talk about change.

This is where the work—and the shift actually happens.

THE PROCESS

Your Journey Through the Work

A structured, high-impact 4-pillar process designed specifically for men who are ready to stop performing and start living with purpose, connection, and emotional freedom.

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    01

    AWARENESS

    Turn insight into clarity.
    See yourself. Understand what’s real.

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    02

    EXCAVATION

    This is where we go deeper. You will safely access and process:

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    03

    INTEGRATION

    Insight alone does not create change. In this phase you’ll:

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    04

    CREATION

    With a new internal foundation, you define how you move forward.

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT

This Is Not a Typical Men’s Retreat

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This is not a talking circle with no direction. This is clear direction on your core patterns that keep you stuck.

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This is not mindset coaching, keeping you in the mind and out of your heart. This is not surface-level tools. This is heart opening and expanding your consciousness.

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This is not a passive or optional experience. Real growth happens when you have an experience that shifts the way you view yourself and the world.

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This is a guided experience targeted to the root of your pain.

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This is being held without judgment and receiving direct feedback.

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This is excavating your psyche to reveal your true nature—embracing your wholeness.

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This is having clarity on the direction you are headed and a vision that excites you to wake up with passion

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THE SETTING

Santa Fe,
New Mexico

Your experience takes place in a private, serene environment surrounded by natural beauty, quiet, and open space.

A space designed for healing.

DATES, ROOMS & INVESTMENT

Choose Your Retreat Experience

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Each retreat is intentionally small and curated.
Once spots are filled, enrollment closes.

Limited to 4 - 7 men per retreat

If dates don’t work for you - see our Healing Barn stay

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May 21 - 25, 2026
Santa Fe, New Mexico

October 8 - 12, 2026
Santa Fe, New Mexico

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    Private Room Experience

    For those who want privacy, space and deeper integration.

    Private bedroom at The Healing Barn

    Full retreat access

    Quiet space for reflection


    $2,999

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    Shared Room Experience

    For those who value connection,
    comfort, and shared experience.

    Shared bedroom at The Healing Barn or the Luxury Glamping Tent

    Full retreat access

    Connection with like-minded participants

    Shared bathroom


    $1,999

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    Luxury Glamping Experience

    For those who feel nourished by nature, space, and quiet grounding.

    Luxury Glamping tent accommodations

    Full retreat access

    Immersive nature experience

    Private bathroom


    $2,499

What’s included

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    Nourishing whole-food, locally sourced.

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    Small group environment.

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    Structured emotional healing processes. In-depth workbook.

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    Practical tools for real-life integration.

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    Nature hikes, and grounding practices.

Important To Know

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This work is not designed for:

  • Those looking for relaxation or a spa-like experience

  • Passive Participation

  • Individuals not ready to engage emotionally

This work is designed for those who:

  • Are ready to face themselves honestly

  • Want real change

  • Are willing to trust the process

  • Are at a point where they are willing to do what it takes to be happy

Choose Your Perfect Accommodations

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    Black Beauty Private Room

    Private queen tempurpedic bed with down comforter, crisp cotton linens and direct outside access to the Cowboy Bath.

    $2999

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    White Beauty Room

    Semi-private (studio) queen tempurpedic bed with down comforter, crisp cotton linens. Fall to sleep to sounds of the waterfall directly outside.

    $2799

  • A bedroom with two black twin beds with tribal patterned black and white bedspreads, a black dresser, a black nightstand between the beds with a mirror above, a window with a plant and flowers on the windowsill, and wall decorations including framed artwork and circular wall hangings.

    XL Twin Beds Shared Room

    Two XL Twin tempurpedic beds to share with a friend. Down comforters and crisp cotton linens. Located inside the Healing Barn.

    $1999 pp (double occupancy)

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    Pinon Glamping Tent

    Gorgeous canvas tent with veranda. Queen tempurpedic bed with down comforters, heated mattress pad and crisp cotton linens. Wood stove inside the tent. Private bathhouse just a short distance away.

    $2499

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    Red Cedar Glamping Tent

    Gorgeous boho decor with Queen bunk tempurpedic beds, heated mattress pad, down comforters, and crisp cotton linens. Wood stove inside tent. Private bathhouse just a short distance away.

    $1999 pp double occupancy

CLIENT EXPERIENCES

Real Men. Real Change.

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    "My brother and I attended a retreat at the Healing barn.  Jana and Lance provided a very healing environment.  Their combined knowledge is incredible and my brother and I immediately felt very comfortable to open up with them. They taught us about daily meditation and gave us many different techniques to deal with daily life in a healthy way.  Our time there was truly life changing.  The breathwork alone made a great impact on my daily life especially after the retreat.  Jana and Lance were very attentive and truly, truly wanted to help my brother and I.  They work from their heart and that had a big impact on me.  I was able to connect with my inner child thanks to them and that continues to make a wonderful impact on my life.  If you are even considering this retreat, just do it, it will impact every aspect of your life in a positive way.”

    Vural & Hasan - New England

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    I had come to a point in my life where I had so many good things, and yet I felt unhappy and limited. I continued to go through periods of depression, despite psychotherapy, treatment with medications, regular exercise, and intermittent meditation. My medical practice was thriving, and completely under my control, and yet I felt controlled by it. I have a loving marriage, and yet I was not feeling the love, nor was my wife. I had been in psychotherapy many times over the years, and it had been helpful, but never really transformative or healing. After the 5 days I spent with Jana and Lance Wilson at the Healing Barn, I am transformed, and I am healing.”

    Dr. Murat Alkin, California

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    "Before attending the private intensive I was feeling burned out on my career, my hobbies, my passions. I was stuck in patterns of focusing on all that I perceived was wrong in my life. Patterns of fixating on the past and mistakes that were made, or regrets for what never was. Or I would endlessly worry about the future and how bleak it seemed. I was unaware. A helpless passenger, along for the ride. The tools and techniques I learned at the private intensive empowered me to raise my awareness. This allows me to recognize negative thought patterns and to have the self-responsibility to replace them with positive, affirming thoughts. During the retreat I learned about some core wounds I developed as a child that were restraining me from living a rich life as well as tools on how to reparent the inner child and overcome what was holding me back. I was able to let shit go. Now I’m experiencing a renewed sense of self-confidence, motivation, and a positive attitude that I’m in the driver’s seat of my life. I knew the life I wanted. Now I know I’m worthy of it."

    Marcus King, Kentucky

This Is Where Real Change Begins

If you’re ready to move beyond patterns and step into lasting transformation, the next step is simple.

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Begin Your Healing Journey

Complimentary 5-Day Emotional Mastery Intensive

A 5-day online training designed to help you understand the hidden patterns driving anxiety, overwhelm, self-sabotage, and emotional suffering.

Over five days, you'll receive five one-hour video lessons introducing the foundational principles of The Emotional Healing System™.

Total Value: 5 Hours of Training

Enroll For Free
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This Is Where Real Change Begins

If you’re ready to move beyond patterns and step into lasting transformation, the next step is simple.

Apply For Your Retreat